Couples Therapy & Marriage Counseling in San Diego, CA

I’m sick of you!

“All we ever do is fight! If we’re not fighting, we’re not talking! I didn’t sign up for this! I’m not even sure you love me anymore.

You’re always so busy or preoccupied. No matter how often I tell you what I need, you don’t seem to care.

Nothing I ever do is good enough! I try hard to make you happy, and all you ever do is complain! I am listening, but everything I say upsets you! I don’t know how to make you happy anymore!”

Sound familiar? These are the words of a couple in conflict. You know you love each other; you can’t seem to communicate. No matter what you say or how you say it, it isn’t working. You’re not sure you’re in love anymore.

Married and Lonely

You’re married and live in the house with your partner but feel alone.

It’s worse than living alone. At least if you were alone, you would understand why you felt lonely.

It’s frustrating. The two of you are like two ships in the night, struggling to connect but missing each other.

You miss your best friend but are too upset to keep trying.

Existing together is all that’s left.

There’s no passion, and intimacy is occasional or non-existent. You don’t even have fun together. Occasionally, you plan time together, but if you are honest, it’s not as fun as it used to be.

The constant arguing is getting on your nerves.

You’re not sure how long you’re even willing to stay in the relationship.

Exist no more in loneliness!

Your partner is not your enemy, but the cycle of communication is.

Restoring the passion, love, and intimacy in your relationship is possible. Communicating can occur by learning your cycle, slowing it down, and expressing your deeper, intimate needs.

Through couples therapy, you can restore the embers of your relationship to a burning fire.

It is possible to play, laugh, and have renewed intimacy again. You don’t have to continue to accept only existing in the relationship. As we work together to help you reconnect, circling each other, waiting for the next argument, and feeling alone will cease to exist – and your relationship will be restored.

Stop the Arguing

Our therapists have the training to help you heal. We use Emotionally Focused Therapy and practical tips to help restore communication, deepen the relationship, and help you heal.

From a psychological and biblical perspective, we strive to give you a safe place to express those deeper needs, reduce shame, and resort to hoping.

Fall In Love Again

You can have the relationship you desire. It’s never too late.

Call today and fall in love with your partner all over.